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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2023-10-08 04:01 pm
[ SECRET POST #6120 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6120 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 41 secrets from Secret Submission Post #875.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)"As it’s written, your secret makes you sound like an asshole. With the added context, the other person is an asshole and it’s shocking and awful that happened to you :("
As written, it still doesn't make OP sound like an asshole and your doubling down of trying to defending the person you then call an asshole is very telling.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)The world isn’t going to cater to you. If someone in fandom does something you don’t like, it’s on you how you respond to that. What the person did is relevant in others judging the response if you’re going to say, submit a secret to a community about fandom secrets for judgement.
The anon was an asshole who did an asshole thing. But that wasn’t clear in the secret. In the secret, it looked like the anon was a well intentioned social misfit and OP’s lingering resentment made them look like an asshole. And, as I keep pointing out to you, that isn’t what happened at all. Again, not sure how you’re totally not understanding this.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)Except that you did...
Work on your communication skills. I've tried to hash this out with you, but you only choose to say what makes you seem right in the moment. Truth doesn't seem to matter to you, so I wash my hands of you.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)Which is something OP and I discussed before you jumped to the conclusion that I have done something like send a gif of a celebration in response to the news of a loved one’s death.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-10 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)"As it’s written, your secret makes you sound like an asshole. With the added context, the other person is an asshole and it’s shocking and awful that happened to you :("
"In the secret, it looked like the anon was a well intentioned social misfit and OP’s lingering resentment made them look like an asshole."
YTA