[ SECRET POST #6348 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6348 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

Sure! But if that's what you're talking about, it's not our job from the outside to tell other people how to identify. It's up to people to come to those realizations themselves and they're the only ones who have the right and ability to make those decisions for ourselves.

To extend the argument, it's good to tell people that bisexuality is a real identity and a valid option. It's not our place to tell anyone they have to be bisexual, even if we might think that some people choose not to identify as bisexual because of societal pressure or prejudice.

[(Anonymous)]

See I'm a bit torn on this. Sure, what a person says they identify with should count the most but sometimes, the facts just really contradict this. Like someone who says they're asexual but also say they're sexually attracted to others and like to have sex a lot out of sexual attraction. Theyre simply are not asexual.

(Also reminds me of the dude in this comm a few years ago who kept insisting he was gay while recounting his relationship with his female fuckbuddy turned girlfriend turned wife. Sorry, but no matter what you identify as, you like to fuck women, you are attracted to them and you marry one, you're functionally bi.)

[(Anonymous)]

Yeahhhhhhh there's some point where a person's identification just doesn't make sense in light of the facts. But I just generally want to err so much on the side of letting people figure out their own identities. It is just so hard, and identities can be so complicated - we are trying to shove all of this complex reality of human sexuality and gender into a handful of boxes and so I basically believe in giving people a lot of latitude to take those boxes and figure out how to make them work for their own experience and sense of self.

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