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⌈ Secret Post #6354 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

I like many things too. The important things to remember are 1) thought crimes aren't real, 2) there is a time and place for everything. I support you liking anything, and also I advise you to know your audience when you're liking things in public. R Kelly has some great songs and I've ripped a few from the web but I'm not putting them into fanvids or mixtapes for my friends. [/old]

[(Anonymous)]

+1

There's a musician whose songs got me through some bad times. He has some pretty substantial abuse allegations against him and is just honestly a dick to put it lightly. I still like the music and sing along when it's just me and close friends who know why I love it! It doesn't affect anyone or anything. It's okay to like stuff that has a shitty background to it.

The part about not being able to handle criticisms of (thing) and getting really anxious about it sounds like maybe there's other mental health stuff involved though, that sounds stressful. It might help to try to think through what about it upsets you, OP... Is it the thought people might think you're bad? Is it seeing something special to you get judged? Idk, maybe if you can pinpoint it you can get a better idea of where it comes from, and be able to address the anxiety a bit more directly.

[(Anonymous)]

I am the same way with criticism about those things I love in a perhaps unhellthy way. For me, when people critique it or comment on it feels like they are saying those things about me. Like if the music is bad, what they're saying is I'm bad. Oversimplification but you get the gist.

I know, logically, this isn't true but yeah, mental illness at play. It makes normal things explode into ultra sensitive things. Brains are dumb sometimes!