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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-05-29 05:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #6354 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6354 ⌋

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Re: Weird triggers of realization

(Anonymous) 2024-05-30 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'd raise an eyebrow at that, too. It's one thing to really love a piece of media, but that sounds borderline delusional, or at least grandiose thinking. Significant red flag.

I've had a lot of realizations about human behavior over the years. Sometimes being friends or romantically involved with someone means you're naturally inclined to try and think of them in the best light, even if that means making excuses for them, or explaining away problematic behaviors. On several occasions, I've slowly realized that some people in my life who thought themselves unlucky, and frequently bemoaned their lack of good fortune, etc. were just... people who repeatedly made bad choices and then tried to evade accountability by treating the consequences of their actions like it was some quirky fate the universe bestowed upon them. It allowed them to never address their own damaging behaviors AND milk sympathy from others for their "bad luck".

(Like no, if you spend your limited income on collectible stuff, then it's not an unexpected turn of events that you don't have money to pay your phone bill. That was you, not managing your money well.)