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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-05-29 05:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #6354 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6354 ⌋

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Re: Weird triggers of realization

(Anonymous) 2024-05-30 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
I've had some retrospective realizations of my own with people in my life.

Such as when I had a falling out with a long time friend while at the same time going through something rough with my older sibling.
It's that people often speak in half truths.
I realized this when I would ruminate things said between me and my former friend as we as things said between me and my sibling.
In that, they care about me but they care about themselves first.
How much of myself am I willing to give to them knowing this?

The people in my life whose actions and words don't align - especially when it comes to interpersonal things - are people whose half truths come out of their mouths more than I'm willing to overlook.
And so I just have to keep my relationship and interactions with them at a certain level of distance (with my former friend it meant we no longer talk to each other, with my sibling it meant I shouldn't expect them to care about my personal life and I should keep things at surface level to keep things cordial).

Re: Weird triggers of realization

(Anonymous) 2024-05-30 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
It's always an orange flag, if not a red one, for me when people's words and actions do not align. That's something to watch out for.