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⌈ Secret Post #6423 ⌋

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Venting

[(Anonymous)]

for all your venting needs

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

my partner is not attracted to me, has a huge crush on their friend, doesn't want to do anything but play video games, and I'm meant to act like everything is fine because they have BPD and can't help it.

We've been together for five years. I'm nearing 40. This is their house. I moved across the country for them. This is the only person I've ever loved and this sucks so much.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

Goddamn if that isn't the shittiest shit sandwich with a shit olive on top. I really hope you're able to get out of that situation as painlessly as possible, whatever that might mean. I'm very sorry you're going through that.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

{{hugs}}

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

o o f feels bad man, I had a bit of a similar situation a few months ago. Rolled the fuck out, never looked back.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, anon, that sounds like a heartbreaking situation. I hope for your own sake that you won't sink any more time and effort into this relationship without being very, very honest with yourself about the potential outcome and how hard it will be. I speak from personal experience - the only thing worse than finding yourself in this situation is to let it continue and to find yourself in the exact same situation five, ten, twenty years down the road. Don't go there. You deserve better than being with a partner who doesn't love you, isn't attracted to you, and doesn't respect you enough to treat you well.

Please consider formulating an exit strategy. You don't have to use it. But it's better if you have one in place, ready to go if it's needed. You'll think more clearly if you have a back up plan lined up.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

So disrespectful. I can't tell you if they have redeeming qualities to justify your feelings, or what their side of the story is, but from what you've said, this doesn't sound like a loving relationship, or like you're being treated well. Sometimes being on your own is much better than being in love.

Re: Venting

[(Anonymous)]

Are they paying the mortgage alone?