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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-06 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #6423 ]


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[personal profile] fscom 2024-08-06 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
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[personal profile] fscom 2024-08-06 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I enjoy RPF. If people don't like RPF, that's fine. If people think RPF is morally wrong and I'm a bad person, that's fine.

If people make no mention of RPF on their main accounts, but have a whole separate fandom identity where they post RPF and make a new secret group of friends who are also into RPF, and become a known and popular member of their RPF fandom while not breathing a word of this to their main account friends (some of whom are into RPF), imo, that is inexcusable.

b!s yes, this is about a specific person. Someone I was friends with ten years ago. Yes I'm still bitter about it (and still in the RPF fandom she flounced from in 2015).

(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Why does it bother you? I could see thinking they're a hypocrite if they bashed RPF on Account 1 and wrote it on Account 2, but if they make no mention of it on Account 1, what's the big deal? Maybe they have real-life stuff to consider and want a division between the two.

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
I think I need more context. Did the friend know you were into RPF? Itโ€™s such a polarizing topic and a lot of people are in the closet about it. I can understand not wanting to risk that spilling over into their public face.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I think this is a friend issue not an RPF issue! People should have as many or as few identities online as they want - the issue is not the multiple identities, it's whether or not they're being vile in one of them while gathering information from another, and I've never seen anyone successfully do that for very long.

I do know someone who has separate identities for her RPF and fictional canons, but it's because someone else (a BNF and associated fleet of bullies) was absolutely vile to her about some of her RPF years ago and she doesn't want to deal with that again. And I only know about the two identities because I was there when she made them.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I don't get this unless they're being hypocritical. I have a separate RPF account and a third account for my most iddy smut. I don't particularly want that one getting out, but I'm gratified that it's popular.

(And there's basically no crossover between all of these accounts, either; they have different audiences in the same two fandoms, interestingly enough!)

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
I haven't dealt with this, but I have had friends keep things secret from me in which I didn't know why they'd keep such a secret from me. And most times it hurt my feelings. In a particular situation, I felt like I couldn't trust my friend anymore.

I completely understand that people have their own reasons to keep a lot of things close to their chest (I certainly am not someone who tells people everything about me), but there are times where one or both parties failed to set things straight. And depending on what the history of the relationship is, it can often be a sign of friendship reevaluation.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 10:24 am (UTC)(link)
eh, I don't see a big deal. I'm indiffirent RPF and think it's at least dodgy from a moral standpoint, and I have a fandom friend who has a side acount where they keep all their K-pop RPF stuff and friends, and frankly I'm thankfull for that, because K-pop is also somethinthing I'm indiffirent to. we just talk about stuff we both like and don't mention it.
then again, it's not like my friend keeps it a complete secret, they just don't bring it up to me cause they know I'm not interested.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-08 02:31 pm (UTC)(link)

There may be some context we're missing here, but I would assume the purpose of the exercise was to avoid drawing attention from the "RPF is the most evil thing ever, actually" crowd.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)

I mean, as long as she wasn't his patient anymore, it's not that bad.

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Fuck yeah Living Single Secret!

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 10:25 am (UTC)(link)
agree

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, for sure, but having been that teenager, I can empathise with her! And I wasn't surrounded by prettier/wittier/funnier sisters and didn't have to somehow get married.

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[personal profile] iff_and_xor 2024-08-07 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Huh, an interesting take, I guess. Certainly not one Iโ€™d ever have thought up.

I remember the movie being a very sweet modern fairytale and thinking that several actors did a good job with their roles.

I guess them being Muslim would create this way for the daughter to go out into the world veiled, partially explaining it, but also partially raising the question of the mother not veiling. And the whole pig-like thing would have an added dimension.

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Very true! Jackie Brown is always the first movie I think of whenever the topic comes up about adaptations being bad if they donโ€™t follow the book exactly.

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[personal profile] fscom 2024-08-06 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
NS, NF, etc.

[personal profile] fscom 2024-08-06 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Itโ€™s been a while since we did one of these. Big juicy stuff, small stuff no one else would get, and everything in between. Spill here!

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[personal profile] fscom 2024-08-06 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Games thread!

(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I was gonna choose the other misnamed one, but chose right at the last second.

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