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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-06 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #6423 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6423 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
A few thoughts as somebody who's forty and identifies as ace.

1. I don't see it as "giving up". If that's what you are, then that's what you are and there's nothing wrong with that.
2. You say you were horny in your teens but you don't say that you were actually attracted to anybody then. It's not like being ace means you never experience sexual arousal or wanting to get off.

So anyway, I understand the desire to want to be in a relationship with someone for the stability aspect. I am single too and while I'm happy with it I do find myself worrying sometimes about things like what happens if I get hurt at home and nobody finds me. Or it's a pain to have to take time off work to take my dog to the vet and it'd be nice to be able to share that responsibility with someone else. Or all the other nice things that could come from being in a long term committed relationship with someone that don't involve having sex with them. So anyway, my point: I get the feeling.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2024-08-07 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Unless you're also on an antidepressant, I don't think your situation is the same. This very likely isn't "the way [anon] is" but instead something induced by the pills that she's on.