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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-07 06:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #6424 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6424 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-08 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people in fandom have a really codependent idea of what love should be. The participants are not equals, and are not whole in and of themselves. One (or more) is helpless, reliant on the care of the other; and one experiences validation through the helplessness of the other, through the fact that they're "needed."

It's just occurred to me that this is part of why I tend not to like hurt/comfort fics.