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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-27 07:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #6444 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6444 ⌋

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Re: Boomer dad BS.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-28 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Super personal question but is it because you aren’t doing things the way your mother or another woman who lived there did them?

Re: Boomer dad BS.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-28 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
My mother is no longer with us, and we were/are very different in our approach to housekeeping. She was also very inflexible about how her method was the best method and everyone else was wrong, however. But I don't recall my dad ever following her around and criticizing how she did things because there probably would've been hell to pay. He's never had to do a significant amount of housekeeping chores because we did it all, which is why it's galling that all of a sudden he has an opinion about it and dares to nitpick my methods when he's never lifted a finger before. He's also kind of a slob, so... yeah, insult to injury.

Re: Boomer dad BS.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-28 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT
My suspicion and the reason I asked is because I think you’re doing “wrong” not because that’s how he would do but because that’s how your mom did it. And if that’s the case, I’m sorry but usually nothing ever changes. You’re usually competing with an imaginary ghost who has lost all flaws and the mundane promoted to perfection.