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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-09-19 05:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6467 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6467 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 07 secrets from Secret Submission Post #924.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
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if your trauma from being picked on as a kid is so bad, you don't want to see kids...you need to go therapy.

Why? Avoiding kids does not harm them, and OP has every right to avoid them if they want. Why does that require therapy? I mean, if it was causing OP great distress every day of their life knowing that kids exist in the world then yeah, I'd agree that that could use some therapy, but that's not the impression I'm getting from the secret? They dislike something, they avoid it, and they're sharing their frustration. I don't think it's that big of a deal?

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
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But it isn’t possible to avoid kids all the time. And people like OP have verbally and physically assaulted children just for existing in public spaces. Of course they need therapy and you should give your head a wobble, too.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Right about here is where your trolling got too obvious. Was a good run.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
You were saying…?
https://youtu.be/r0QRMqobTz4?si=EA9BPr-VfaV4vCtL

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
My son was attacked by a woman in the checkout line at Walmart because he kept asking me for a candy bar and I kept saying no. He was four. She slapped him and told me I needed to give him “a deep bath.” No, I’m not trolling. These people exist and OP’s secret reads exactly like the unhinged psychopaths in Childfree communities on FB and Reddit.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
If you're not trolling then from an outsider's perspective you're projecting your trauma from that incident all over someone else's secret, who has not actually given any sign they would harm a child.

Seriously, consider stopping because you're also coming off as needing therapy about this.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
*eye roll* yes, i went to therapy. Do you know what Childfree is? I feel like I’m talking to someone who lacks the basic understanding of what I’m saying.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like you need therapy...

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I did. I also learned what Childfree is because it isn’t just not having or wanting kids. And the secret reads like a post from the subreddit or in any of the FB groups.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Assuming that actually happened and you don't just have some weird vendetta on people who dislike kids, a random incident is not evidence of some widespread mission for people who dislike kids to harm them in public.

unhinged psychopaths in Childfree communities on FB and Reddit

I don't use Facebook, but I've been on the Childfree community on Reddit. People like to talk about how horrible everyone is there, but it's just not true. The posts are things like "my boss is expecting me to work overtime because I'm the only one in the office without kids" and venting about how that's unfair, or "my neighbor's kid hit a ball into my window and broke it and the parents don't want to pay to get it fixed, how do I handle this situation?" or "my sibling from out of town is coming to visit and wants to stay with their four small children in my house but my spouse has health problems and the noise and activity would be too much for them, how do I politely tell my sibling no?" and stuff like that. I have literally never seen anything there to suggest people hurting kids.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
And people that I assume are like OP have verbally and physically assaulted children just for existing in public spaces.

FIFY

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
That’s not a fix though. People who ARE like OP. Do you really not know what Childfree is? I don’t mean people who don’t have kids or people who don’t want kids. I’m specifically talking about the Childfree movement.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
You're not going to win this argument by stating that people who don't like kids must therefore be hurting them. That's the thought pattern that antis have, and we all know that it's bullshit.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
So that’s a no, you do not know what the fuck the discussion is about. Ok. That’s all you had to say.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
I know what this discussion is about, but I'm pretty sure you don't. You seem to think there's some evil cabal out there of people who hate kids who torture them whenever they see them in the streets like ye olde timey witches. Please seek help.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
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people like OP have verbally and physically assaulted children just for existing in public spaces

And going back to the original post, I said this:

as long as they're not harming any actual kids, it doesn't hurt anything for OP to hate them and not want to see any

But I get it, reading comprehension is hard for some people.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
What you don’t get is that we don’t KNOW that OP hasn’t harmed any children or that they won’t. What we DO know is that Childfree extremists often reach a point where they WILL explode and verbally assault a child for existing in a public space. There’s nothing wrong with multiple people pointing out that OP should get therapy. If nothing else, it will help them cope better.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
What we DO know is that Childfree extremists often reach a point where they WILL explode and verbally assault a child for existing in a public space.

Source. Cause I know for a fact you're pulling that shit out of your ass. (Methinks the "multiple people" is really just you, btw.)

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Hold on, why are we even accepting anon's projection and assuming OP is a "childfree extremist"?

Is anyone who wants to avoid small children a childfree extremist too? Because there sure are a lot of people like that and most of them aren't going around slapping kids.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
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That's why I want a source, because there isn't gonna be one. They'll only have their "experience." They sound an awful lot like the republicans going after "childless cat ladies".

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
No, it isn’t just me. Feel free to ask Case to check IP addresses. Someone else even pointed out the secret gives Childfree vibes. Do you really not know what it is? I’m assuming you’re a DA from the previous comment.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Sigh, no. Someone said /r/childfree vibes. Reddit's subreddit of very anti children people are not the entire group of people who are childfree, just like Reddit's /r/antiwork is not representative of all leftists, nor is Reddit's /r/politics representative of all US politics.

Of course subreddits focused around something draw the more extreme people. But that is not all childfree people.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
Childfree = being without a child. Like being sugar free or glucose free or duty free. Do you think there's some organized movement of people who want to harm kids just because they don't like them? Sounds like a conspiracy theory to me.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
But we don't know that they HAVE (or will). All I'm saying is that assuming they haven't/don't, they don't need therapy just because they don't like kids.

Also, "Childfree extremists" like there's some epidemic of people "verbally assaulting" strange children in public spaces. That is not happening on any large scale, unless you're one of those people with a "children are all angels and can do no wrong" mindset and one not paying attention and running into someone's cart at the grocery store and the person saying "hey, watch out!" is considered "verbal assault" to you.

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(Anonymous) 2024-09-20 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
We don’t know that have or will, correct. We do know that their secret is written in the same vein as the people who advocate for killing children and SOME of them HAVE attacked children. And OP is describing an aversion to human beings that they cannot avoid. Yes, they should seek therapy.

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