[ SECRET POST #6483 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6483 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Right, like what if a person who has cheated multiple times before wants a poly or open relationship, would that change things and make them acceptable then? That could be a factor too.

[(Anonymous)]

Anyone who wants to hook up with them can do so. Personally, I couldn't. One, because I'm not into poly or open relationships, and two, I still couldn't look past the cheating, as past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior (unless the person really reflects and works on themselves and makes a conscious effort to NOT repeat it).

Like, say I were into poly relationships. What if we agreed to set the number of partners per person to something like 3 or 4? And I was happy with my 3 while the other person decided, "well, it IS an open relationship" and decides to sleep with up to 10 other people? That would still be "cheating" as the other person is not abiding by the agreement. Now, if no conditions were set other than "this is an open relationship," it wouldn't be cheating.

But all of that is irrelevant since non-monogamy and cheating are both full stops for me.

[(Anonymous)]

IMO, not really. I mean good for them for FINALLY figuring out that they're not interested in monogamy, but anyone who cheats BEFORE suddenly realizing they're interested in open relationships is seriously eehhhhhhhhhhh. At best, they're still the type to be unfaithful to their vows* and disrespectful of other peoples' boundaries because they can't keep it in their pants.

* and stable, healthy open relationships have established rules that all parties have agreed upon, too! So being bad at rules in a monogamous relationship suggests a propensity to be bad at rules, period.