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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-12-26 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #6565 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6565 ⌋

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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2024-12-27 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
There is no harm in asking, just the way you've said it here ("Hey, I'm curious about trying this, I don't know if it's something you have reservations about or interest in yourself. What are your thoughts?"). It might be a strong preference, or a hard limit, or even something she is curious about herself, and the only way to find out is to respectfully ask.

It could be worth thinking through what you want to try specifically, so that you know beforehand what you're asking for and can answer questions she has about what you want to do. When you picture wearing the strap on, do you want to do gender play, specific sex acts like getting oral, try a dominant role...? Knowing what you're after will also help you find an alternative option that satisfies a similar desire if she is not into certain ideas at all.