[ SECRET POST #6565 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6565 ⌋

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Name the fandom. And repeats, etc.

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Games thread!

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Advice thread

[philstar22]

For any advice you need or want to give

Self Advocacy

[philstar22]

How does someone who has massive self esteem issues, lack of self confidence, and tends to judge herself harshly no matter what learn to advocate for herself?

Honestly, I'm really easy to take advantage of. And now that I'm a department head, I'm having to learn to set boundaries and speak up for myself. And I've always struggled with this. Not to mention, my office takes advantage of me too, which I should have recognized before but really only started to recently.

I can advocate for anyone else. But when it comes to me, I just don't know how to do it. I can be confident and poised in court, defending a client, but all that goes out the window when it comes to defending myself. I just don't know how to learn.

[(Anonymous)]

I’m glad you enjoyed it, OP.

[kaijinscendre]

Sadly, I'm also really meh on Lego Fortnite. However, I'm not a fan of that type of game (minecraft, stardew vallet, etc) at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, yeah. I've forgiven, actually, but I haven't forgotten. I wouldn't trust him to complete a project any further than I could throw him.

Re: Self Advocacy

[(Anonymous)]

can you imagine yourself as a third party client?

also letting your office take advantage of you shouldn't be seen as "it's okay if it's me," it should be "it's not okay because my office is taking advantage of someone and I'm allowing it." if it works on you then all the more reason for them to try it on others because it's working

[(Anonymous)]

My dad always says “Mario” with the A as in “mat”. He claims he was there when it first came out so he must be correct. It drives me and my brother crazy.

Re: Self Advocacy

[philstar22]

You are right. In the past, I just assumed that I just wasn't good enough an attorney, didn't have the experience, there was no way I could earn more or get a better job. But I've recently got some positive feedback from other attorneys with more experience than me, won some cases, and got told by a bunch of other attorneys that I'm way underpaid. It just never occurred to me before.

I am working on it all. It is just really difficult to overcome years of self worth issues.

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it's a me, marry-o?

[(Anonymous)]

Reminds me of a girl from Canada I met at camp who insisted that Virginia was pronounced Virg-eye-nia. Didn't care that it wasn't even her country.