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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-12-27 05:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #6566 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6566 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[The Boy and the Heron]



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05. [SPOILERS for And Just Like That... (Sex and the City sequel)]




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06. [SPOILERS for Arcane Season 2]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of assault/abuse]




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08. [WARNING for discussion of noncon]




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09. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault/abuse]















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Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2024-12-28 12:58 am (UTC)(link)

What you need to do is talk to your wife.

Yes, it will be hard, and uncomfortable. It may even initially hurt her feelings -- and what she has to say may hurt yours. Nonetheless, it's important that you express your emotional needs and sexual desires to her, and that you tell her that you feel disconnected from her, because none of these issues can truly be addressed unless she knows about them.

This is the woman that you married. Emphasis on married. You loved her enough to agree to the highest form of romantic commitment that there is, and she loved you that much, in return. Remember that, and recognize that that kind of commitment requires maintenance, because love isn't self-sustaining. You have to actively nurture it, a task which sometimes requires difficult, vulnerable conversations.

This RP relationship has done you a service, in the sense that it has revealed what aspects of your marriage need nurturing. Now go, talk to wife, and find a way to work on them together.