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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-02-10 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #6611 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6611 ⌋

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[Artemis Pebdani of "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia"]



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Re: Teacher Problems

(Anonymous) 2025-02-11 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd try very hard not to react the way he wants you to, so as not to reward him. Be boring, don't act shocked or scared. Watch some cop interrogations on YouTube and see how they listen to people's confession of murder and worse without batting an eye. They adapt a demeanor of polite but mild interest. You can be politely disinterested, as if you're listening to your neighbor's anecdote about their hemorrhoid trouble.


Document every incident with dates and times, stating only the facts of what happened - NOT your feelings or opinions. Not because your feelings and opinions are invalid, but because you want the evidence to read like a report. Keep this record just in case.

If your school has a counselor, maybe speak to them regarding your concerns about the student without mentioning any diagnosis labels. Describe his behavior, and the cp search. Maybe drop a mention of the school's liability, having such a thing on their computers.

Re: Teacher Problems

(Anonymous) 2025-02-11 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Agree with this comment.

A lot of arrogant teenagers and young adults get a huge ego boost from getting a big reaction, especially people in positions of power said teens/YAs think they are better than.

Simply staying quiet with a passive face can often disarm them because they realize they can't get anything out of you.

I don't know the specifics, but try not to engage too much with this student, and when you do try to keep it surface level and cordial. You have to have a stone cold poker face.

And at the same time document everything because you never know when that will be needed. And I do hope you have resources to go for support with your emotional and mental health.
I hope there are other resources or people who can also be aware of this student. Of course you have to say it's for the student's wellbeing and safety, but mostly I'm hoping for your safety and others' safety.