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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-02-26 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #6627 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6627 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2025-02-27 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Only if you don't value the work it takes to run a household, including cooking, cleaning, and childcare - all of which goes towards a family's quality of life and makes it possible for someone else to work full time since they have that support at home. But many people (mostly men, tbh) don't value that or see that as "work".

(Anonymous) 2025-02-27 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
It's not "work," though. It's part of being an adult. People who are single and work full-time still have to do all of those things too.

(Anonymous) 2025-02-27 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)

Taking care of all these things when you're single and childless is very different that when you aren't. I fail to understand how you can't see that. It's still work in both cases, it's not the same amount of work, with the same constraints, mental, load, etc.

(Anonymous) 2025-02-27 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Childless I'll give you, but it's actually ten times easier when you have a partner because you can split the tasks between you instead of having to do them all yourself. You can cook some of the time and your partner can cook the rest of the time, you can trade off cleaning the bathroom every week, etc. instead of having to do it all yourself.

I'm single. I work full-time. I don't have anyone I can ask to make dinner tonight if I've had a long day at work or clean the bathroom if I'm feeling sick, I have to do all of that myself. Having a partner would make all of that much LESS work.

(Anonymous) 2025-02-27 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, but OP says they'd spend their active time writing and reading fanfiction. Who's taking care of the house in that scenario? Comes across a lot like it'd be the partner who also works outside the home.