[ SECRET POST #6722 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6722 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Is it normal to be sad about the fact that two of my friends aren't friends with each other anymore? Even if the falling out happened ages ago?

[(Anonymous)]

Up until a point, sure. Are THEY sad about it? Because if not, this is more you having feelings about a thing, which is natural but best not to let it get out of hand or focus too much on it.

I'd try to unpack why it's bothering you, though. The answer likely lies more with you, and not your friends' actual friendship.

[(Anonymous)]

I think it's just me. We used to all hang out together, and sometimes when I'm with one, I miss the other.

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da

Makes sense to me to be bothered. It's good if you can move past it and not take it personally, what happened between them is out of your control and if they are over it, then there's no reason to let it poison your ongoing friendships. But getting sad sometimes about missing the old group dynamic is totally understandable.

[(Anonymous)]

I think it's normal. I miss a lot of friends from my youth, but I have no desire to go onto FB to reach out and talk to them.

I know that I miss the feeling of having my friends and me hanging out when we were younger. We can't capture that back.

I have two close friends and the three of us used to do a lot of things together. The three of us are still in contact but one of us lives far away, another has kids. When I spend time with one friend, I miss the other, because I know how nice it is when it's the three of us together. Not to say it's less nice when it's just me and one friend. Just that the vibes are different and my friends always remind me of each other.