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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-08-06 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #6788 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6788 ⌋

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Re: Kids or no kids?

(Anonymous) 2025-08-07 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could have kids. I gave myself a deadline of ~35 to have one. If my husband could have supported me as a stay at home mom, or even if I could have afforded the first five years of daycare I would have gone for it. But we just didn't have enough money to have a kid in a stable household. I suppose if it were really my #1 priority I could have done it and just accepted the risks or worked harder or just accepted a lower standard of living. So I guess I didn't want it enough, and honestly I'm really sad whenever I think of it.

I'd still like to adopt a kid someday. I don't want to be unable to care for a kid in my old age so the longer it takes us to feel confident in our stability the older a kid I'll try for.