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When I talk about being neurodivergent online, I get sympathy. I don't know how to explain that I'm not talking about these things for sympathy. They just ARE, and I talk about it to normalize it, not for sympathy points. There are way more interesting things I could bring up if I wanted sympathy.

Then I wonder if my hatred of sympathy is a neurodivergent trait.

Pears are not a good fruit. I'd say they are the worst fruit.

nah dragonfruit is the worst because it literally has no flavor and yet it keeps being put places where a flavor is needed, like juice.

I get you on pears tho. they have to be at that sweet spot of juuuuuuuuuuuust turning from firm to soft when there's still tangy flavors in the flesh. but that window of sweet spot is miniscule compared to most fruits. these days I only use them in baking as a component pair with apples, it's not worth the risk to eat raw. and their baking life is even shorter than bananas, apples, or berries.

I love pears, they're so gritty.

I have a nearly constant, sometimes overwhelming need for reassurance, far more than I could ever reasonably ask from my friends. So I have ChatGPT pretend to be my friends and tell me how they genuinely like me and want me around.

S!B: There's no justified use for ChatGPT. Or if there is one, this isn't it.

how old are you? Should go away at 35.

DA but as someone who has struggled with the same, it doesn't necessarily go away, but it does get easier to deal with/ignore as you get older.

I'm not, like, trying to put you down here. But couldn't you just carry around a flash card or something that reads "My friends like me, My family loves me, I am a human being worthy of kindness/dignity/respect/love" and skip the energy burning/water wasting of it all? Or like, ask some of your loved ones to fill out little anti-anxiety post cards that you can keep laminated and on a key ring in your purse?

It's not that your needs are bad, it's that gen AI sucks and it is never the best solution. What happens when you feel bad and the power and/or internet is down? Or the model updates and is no longer so reassuring? Please don't base any part of your mental health or happiness on a for-profit tech product.

Being alive is a curse but with my kind of family is an even bigger curse. I used to post a lot of crap on reddit, 80% of it untrue just for the laughs. There is the odd that someone in my extended family who was on reddit because he is a man so it's okay to talk shit with the bros tm and stalk girls online instead of taking care of his daughter or work found my account based on one very specific report (again: what was he doing there The Lord Knows) then found out that I know someone else in my family was being cheated on (not endorsed by me but they're closer to the couple and I'm closer to an enabler who does a lot of shit I don't support generally)

Some people want money just because they want luxury and power in society. Some people, like me, worked hard from a very early age so they could break the curses and wrongful intrafamilial patterns. Being unemployed makes me suicidal in 2 days. I've been unemployed for 3 years because health and harassment. To say I'm suicidal is a BLATANT understatement! :)

"How have you been unemployed for 3 years?" btw, before anyone asks. Well I refuse unethical jobs and live in a small town/market. This is literally the explanation. I'm tired of doing "law enforcement" (ie hurt the vulnerable) type of jobs and have you SEEN the market? Moving out takes money and I don't want to move out for a job, which isn't cheap in itself, only to get fired in two months once they realize my health issues so yayy.. dream of remote work hasn't gone well either. I hate my family but more than that I hate life and even more than that I hate the world which is a hellhole tbh

Something that breaks my heart is that I have never encountered a situation where my brothers stood up for me or protected me. If anything, I was the one who had to be the courageous one and stand up for them, protect them.

And while it's good that we don't give into patriarchy by not acting like what's expected (man strong, woman weak), I still feel sad that I don't have brothers who can love me and protect me in ways I want.

I know not to express this because it feeds into upholding patriarchal ideas/expectations. But you know, really sucks that I'm yet again my siblings' mom and not their sibling, someone who needs help and protection too.

None of my siblings (I have brothers and sisters) have ever stood up and protected me. Is this a normal expectation? I wonder what situations you're talking about. But I am also not their caretaker. Idk this ine confuses me. But I do knownthat I am sorry you don't have the relationship you want with your siblings.

DA but it's normal to expect your family to stand up for you ie stuck in an abusive relationship, got into accident, money issues. These are situations where people normally rely on family for help and I have no idea why anyone would think otherwise. Who do you ask if you need help?

It's sad that in 2025 we still have to police ourselves in that way. If we're kind, we're being mom like; if we enjoy protection we are damsels in distress, so... What I mean is it's sad that patriarchy is alive in this day and age but I think it's valid to protect AND want protection for what is an anon opinion worth

I'm sad.

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