[ SECRET POST #6896 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6896 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Relationship advice?

[(Anonymous)]

Your first obligation is to yourself, nonnie. Your partner's lack of income isn't your burden to bear, and you shouldn't have to make yourself miserable because of it. You deserve better.

If you truly want to leave him (which honestly sounds like a smart call), give him advance warning (e.g., X weeks or whatever to find a way of supporting himself and/or someone else to support him) and then stick to it.

If he can't figure something else in the allocated time, that's his problem. You gave him fair warning, told him exactly when your support would end, and gave him time to make other arrangements -- no-one could ask more of you.

Re: Relationship advice?

[(Anonymous)]

DA

And if/when you do this, leave a paper trail. Emails, texts, whatever else. Cover your ass and keep evidence for if/when this turns into a legal battle or trying to accuse you of not giving any warning.

Re: Relationship advice?

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DA

Don't do this if you think he might get violent. And make sure he doesn't have access to your accounts. You will likely have to get someone else involved depending on laws regarding residences.

Re: Relationship advice?

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Get your plans in order before you say something, in case his mistreatment of you escalates. Hopefully the situation is resolved amicably but it's common for partners to lash out during break ups and for bad behavior to get worse. Be ready to leave in a hurry if worst comes to worst. Good luck nonny.

Re: Relationship advice?

[(Anonymous)]

Giving someone advance warning of a move-out date IS a decent thing to do, but if boyfriend is violent, that could put OP in danger. Just a thought.