[ SECRET POST #6920 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6920 ⌋

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I might finally watch Yuri!!! On Ice now that the western fandom for it has long since died down


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Comments

Re: Vent Thread

[(Anonymous)]

It's really difficult to find players for (game) in my country, so when I saw that this guy played I didn't care that he was a few years younger than me, because it was just to play, and that was clear when I said I was looking to find other players by making a Discord server exclusively for the game.

Now I'm noticing some warning signs I wished I had taken note sooner. Quiet moment in the game "You're not saying anything....", don't talk with him for a day "You don't like talking to *me* much huh.". Finally made the server and invited the only other player for this game. "Damn, not this guy!". He's starting to unnerve me.

We had a good convo or two, but I think I give up, and I'm ready to delete the server and block him from both discord and steam. Am I overreacting? Would ghosting him be better?

Re: Vent Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Reading your post gave me, like.... How do I put this into words. Sympathy pains? It brought back memories of when I have been in that same type of situation, and reminded me of how much it suuuuuuucks. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. It's frustrating and difficult how hard it can be to make friends online, because you never know if you're dealing with someone who is rational, or someone who is going to get overly attached and jealous and just not be able to handle it when you don't want to spend every free moment with them. I have a doormat personality, so I get myself into those situations and have a hard time extracting myself. I don't think that blocking him is too much, honestly. With someone like that, it's unlikely to get better. Typically, it only gets worse. Some people have a hard time understanding boundaries, and at this point in my life, I'm too old and tired to help them learn. (And some of them refuse to learn.) I wish you luck.

Re: Vent Thread

[philstar22]

I'm sorry. That sounds frustrating. I really hope you can find some people who play that game who are actually fun.

Re: Vent Thread

[(Anonymous)]

ghost him asap. i wound up in a situation like this that escalated HARD because he was some 18yo (i was 28? at the time) who latched on due to never having any genuine/strong friendships, and i didn't feel comfortable saying no to him. he made secret accounts and found me on social media, used to get angry if i was online on discord and not talking to him, and eventually started harming himself and threatening to do worse because i was unavailable when he wanted my attention.