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⌈ Secret Post #6974⌋

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Comments

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

[(Anonymous)]

You're right, you shouldn't have to hide your food and drink from your partner just to keep him from eating/drinking it all.

1) Presumably your partner is an adult. He should know not to do that on his own, without anyone telling him.

2) Even if he was raised by wolves and had no idea that eating food that doesn't belong to him is a dick move, one word from you should result in sincere apologies, he replaces your snacks on his dime, and he never touches your snacks or drinks again without asking your permission first.

Because that's what it looks like to be in a healthy relationship with a mature adult. Your comments elsewhere are troubling, nonny. They suggest that no matter how much you love this man and presumably want a future with him, he's not that interested in having a future with you because this is not how partnerships work. You're worried about hurting his feelings, but he's not worried about hurting your feelings. If some day you want to save money for a house, a child, a dream vacation, an emergency fund, do you think your partner is capable of managing his own spending and income like a responsible adult?

There's virtually no way someone with this level of emotional immaturity and selfishness doesn't manifest that elsewhere in your relationship. Does he do his share of household chores without being reminded? Can you rely upon him to take care of you AND hold down the fort at home if you're sick or physically disabled? Is he a caring, considerate lover? Does he remember special occasions, or do nice things for you outside of your everyday life? If you had a child with this man, would he be up taking his share of late night feeding, diaper changing, bathing, and all round baby soothing? I don't want to presume that I know your life, OP. But if I were a betting woman, I know which way I'd bet re: the reliability of your partner. Some men like being with women because it keeps them from having to grow up and clean up after themselves. Don't give men like that the time of day.

And no, I don't guzzle expensive drinks all day everyday because it's not healthy. Also, I can't afford it and only a childish idiot spends money they don't have on stuff that isn't a necessity of life.

Re: What beverages do you usually drink most days?

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you. You make some really good points, and yeah, most of that stuff in the second to last paragraph, he doesn't do. Like there is one of those things that he does. And I don't know about children, I don't particularly want them, BUT there is no way in hell I would EVER have a baby with him. Because I would absolutely be doing 90% of the childcare.

We haven't been together for all that long, but he was a huge upgrade from my past ex who was physically abusive. I rushed into things with this guy I think. And I am realizing that even though we love one another, this is maybe not good enough for me, to put it harshly. I didn't mind some of the lazy and selfish behavior in the beginning, but it's getting under my skin now.