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And some comments went all "it's not just about who tops but the character dynamic/characterisation is suuuper different for A/B than B/A" and seriously? If the characterisation changes so drastically based on who takes it up the ass, that sounds like you REALLY need to examine some weird underlying prejudices you might be having.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 12:28 am (UTC)(link)This isn't real life, where it would be absolutely absurd to say that I can tell someone's bedroom habits just by meeting them. Fiction, if it's any good, has to abide by certain rules of narrative structure, continuous thematic elements, and characterization that we get to delve in deeper than any actual person we will ever meet. All of those things means that we do get insight into what their character is/will be like in the bedroom and if it doesn't flow with the narrative and the thematic elements, it's bad characterization.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 04:20 am (UTC)(link)it's fine to have pairing prefs! just don't dress it up like you're god's gift to literature if you do it one way and a travesty to the very soul of art if you do it the other. just fucking admit you have preferences.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 04:05 am (UTC)(link)Obviously topping and bottoming don't have inherent values unto themselves, and can be written in any way that suits the writer. But that means any way that suits the writer, including ways that cater to the kinds of binary dom!top and sub!bottom depictions that some people want to insist are problematic.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 12:37 am (UTC)(link)Broadly implying every ship's characters and dynamics should or would remain exactly the same if flipflopped, or else you're some sort of bigot (?), is going too far in the other direction though. Characters, just like real people, can have explicitly stated preferences and aversions and interests and these ARE character traits
Of course that doesn't mean the character is incapable of physically doing something else, but the dynamic of someone doing something they're into, and doing something they're not into is very much not the same dynamic. Unless their preferences have magically changed
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 03:41 am (UTC)(link)Real people also experiment and try things out with their partners, though, and doing so doesn't totally change the dynamic between them. Also, the sexual preferences of real people can and do evolve over time. Not every like and dislike is set in stone.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 07:22 am (UTC)(link)Not that these people complaining about top/bottom configuration in their bonus content weren't being silly. I agree that they were. It was bonus content. But I do agree with them that most of the time, for better or worse, top/bottom roles do make a difference in how the characters and the pairing's dynamic is written.
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(Anonymous) 2026-02-10 08:56 am (UTC)(link)I never once mentioned anything being unreadable to me, I was talking about the many ships, especially in BL, in which characters canonically state preferences about that sort of thing. To have them suddenly swap preferences apropos of nothing does change dynamics and changes character traits. Saying 'swapping the roles of any two characters changes nothing' is as broadly wrong as saying 'swapping the roles of any two characters changes everything'; neither of these statements are overall true, because it's on a per character per ship basis.
No ship was named, so all I can comment on is the broad generalization that was made.
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