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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-02-18 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #6984 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6984 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2026-02-19 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm... if you're more indifferent than anything, I'd say leave it be, just say thanks or say nothing and move on. If it's actively bothering you, maybe politely say that you have a bit of a feminization squick and don't mind them having their fun, but don't need to have it messaged to you? I personally wouldn't take offense to that, sometimes my fandom friends and I don't share kinks and have to let each other know we don't want to see something. I can't say if that would cause drama in your fandom but hopefully not.

(Anonymous) 2026-02-19 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
agreed, but only OP knows the climate of their fandom. in some spaces, BNFs are damned if you do, damned if you don't, while in others people are capable of understanding boundaries and squicks and communicate like adults so that everyone is cool.

it might also be worth it for OP to consider whether being treated as a BNF is worth the headache - I get it, it's a high when we all need something nice, but not dealing with it can very quickly sour your interest in the fandom at all and leave you festering in resentment. if establishing boundaries is enough to cause drama, I say let it.