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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-20 04:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #7014 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7014 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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01. [SPOILERS for Big Mouth (kdrama)]




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02. [SPOILERS for Call the Midwife, series 15 finale]




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03. [SPOILERS for Call the Midwife]




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04. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of ableism]




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06. [WARNING for discussion of JKR/transphobia]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of transphobia, racism]



























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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #1001.
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Re: Venthing thread.

(Anonymous) 2026-03-21 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
You deserve to prioritize yourself OP. If you feel like you need an outside source to give you permission, this is the signal that it's OK to be unavailable. Put your phone on Do Not Disturb mode.

You are responsible for one person, yourself. The other person, even if they are in a bad place, they are responsible for themselves. They may want you to be the responsible one, but you have to put yourself first. And sometimes that means putting others' needs aside.

And that is OK. You matter, thread OP. If you need alone time or simply time not conversing with a specific person, take it.

And I think you sound so caring that you are worn down from caring a lot. What I have read, it sounds like stress has got your patience on empty. It doesn't mean you don't care, if anything, it means you care very much. Don't be too hard yourself. Give some of that care to yourself. Sounds like you need some of that kindness and patience toward yourself. ♡