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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-28 01:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #7022 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7022 ⌋

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Re: Pet peeves!

(Anonymous) 2026-03-28 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Reminded of this by someone in another thread: trauma-dumpers. In any situation, but when I got my cancer diagnosis (treated promptly, surgery only, dealt with as far as they know) the number of people who thought it was appropriate to tell me aalll of their problems, past and present, eventually made me laugh. I'm in pain and exhausted from the scans and waiting-rooms and knives, you know this, people! Now is not the time!!! Circle theory is a thing, but also, apparently, it's supposed to work the other way.

Re: Pet peeves!

(Anonymous) 2026-03-28 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, they think they are dumping out...onto you! I'm also a cancer survivor and I work in healthcare, and I have to keep remembering to put on my work persona when people not at work do this.

Re: Pet peeves!

(Anonymous) 2026-03-29 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
I worked retail for 4 years when I was in-between admin jobs and the number of upsetting personal things people would tell me was far, far too high. It's like those customers did not understand that staff are not actually able to excise the right to tell someone to fuck off, so I'd have to stand there and wait for them to be done with a fake smile on my face as customer number 356 would spend 10 mins telling me about their kids messy divorce or some horrible health problem they or a family member had.

I don't miss that at all.