[ SECRET POST #7023 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7023 ⌋

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Re: Common things you don't understand thread.

[(Anonymous)]

The explanation is in the name. It's not called complacent helplessness, it's called learned helplessness, because the person's passivity is a learned response, usually as a result of that person having been repeatedly subjected to distressing situations they had no control over and no power to change. Very often this occured for an extended period during the person's formative years, and so the person developes a deep-seated belief in the futility of their own actions. Eventually they stop trying to change or escape the distressing situation, having learned that all of their efforts are either useless or make their situation worse. At which point their coping mechnisms typically turn inward and become about enduring distress and protecting the inner self - because that's the only thing they can do.

Eventually the person may be released from the circumstances under which their learned helplessness was formed, but by then being proactive in the face of challenges has become extremely difficult, because on an instictive emtional and psychological level they believe their efforts are futile, and in fact, expending effort often feels actively threatening and awful to the person because it triggers their trauma response, and feels like spending their meager personal resources on a doomed course of action when what they should be doing is hunkering down, bracing for impact, and figuring out how to live with whatever bad thing is happening.

Not that I'm speaking from personal experience or anything. -_-

As for people remaining ignorant rather than learning how to do a relatively simple thing — I would be more inclined to attribute that to somewhat broader forms of psychological malaise like information overload, burnout, and executive dysfunction. You don't practice your butterfly stroke when you're caught in a riptide, and a whole lot of people feel like they're caught in a riptide right now.

Re: Common things you don't understand thread.

[(Anonymous)]

I was thinking along those lines, but couldn't think of a way to articulate it. Nicely done. I can relate as well, possibly for different reasons.