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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-29 12:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #7023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7023 ⌋

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Re: A related pet peeve

(Anonymous) 2026-03-29 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
That makes me sad, because when I don't understand I say I don't understand. It's not a complaint, I'm genuinely seeking info... :(
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Re: A related pet peeve

[personal profile] iff_and_xor 2026-03-29 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)

Yes, me too! But in my experience, we’re in the minority.

To be fair, tone of voice and the following sentences usually make it much less ambiguous. It’s not as if I never give explanations, I just wait until I can be more confident it’s a genuine desire for information.

Re: A related pet peeve

(Anonymous) 2026-03-29 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't mind just running roughshod and infodumping on people. If they didn't actually want to know, they shouldn't have asked. People at my office quickly stopped asking what I thought of their new hair cut. :D

Re: A related pet peeve

(Anonymous) 2026-03-29 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
NA - Yep, don't say "I don't understand" if you don't want me to explain it to you. Because either you genuinely don't understand, in which case I'm glad I can help, or you do understand and you're just being judgey, in which here is why your judginess is misplaced.

Now if someone just comes out and says, "I'm annoyed by X," then sure, cool, totally valid, no arguement from me.
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Re: A related pet peeve

[personal profile] iff_and_xor 2026-03-29 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)

I guess I just don’t enjoy explaining things to people who emphatically don’t want to hear what I have to say.

Re: A related pet peeve

(Anonymous) 2026-03-29 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
That's an excellent way to handle it.