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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-04-03 05:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #7028 ]


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Re: If you've ever had and left a shitty relationship, did you ever get over it and want to try agai

(Anonymous) 2026-04-03 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Enjoying being single is great, there's no time frame on when you "should" move on from that. Plenty of people have happy lives as singles or choosing to pursue only casual relationships. It really depends on what you want and whether you feel like it's something to work past or just something neutral/good.

That said, I did move on from a long term relationship that didn't work out and got into another serious relationship, for me it was pretty quick that I felt ready to try dating again and it just turned out that me and my partner were a good match, who took things in a more serious direction after a year or two and are still together today. I feel respected by my partner and like they are someone who is interested in growing with me, we have both changed for the better over the years and supported each other to pursue our individual goals, there is a lot of compromise. I wasn't looking for that when I found it, I was in a similar mood as you for a bit, but I'm happy we found each other.

So I guess my advice would be to enjoy being single, don't put a time limit on it, but be open minded to new possibilities if you find yourself wanting to try dating again, you never know. It's perfectly okay to stay single. It sounds like you are really loving the freedom from your last relationship and after ten years it's good to take time to get to know yourself again and put yourself first, and really think through what you would want from a relationship to be satisfied if you decided to have one again.