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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-04-14 05:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #7039 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7039 ⌋

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I think I see the issue more clearly now

[personal profile] pengilly 2026-04-15 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
I think I'm seeing where OP is be coming from now. I guess their vent is less about being personally insulted that people in cozy gaming communities aren't playing challenging action games, but how the general trait of not wanting to be challenged (not in itself a bad thing) can lead to some players reacting poorly when they are challenged in the form of encountering critique. (And yes, there's difference between simply defending one's tastes, and strawmanning/shaming fair critique.)

Toxic positivity, as other commentors here have said. Though this attitude can be prevalent in fandoms with more action-based gameplay (ask any Sonic fan), I can see how cozy games may have it worse for the reason I mentioned prior.

Though I suspect the poor reaction is less about defending one's moral purity (except in the case of, say, the devs being bigoted in some form, and not wanting to be tied to that), but more of misinterpreting critique as 'I hate this feature/character, therefore I hate [YOU/the developer] personally for [liking it/implementing it].' (I used to struggle with this mindset as someone with unpopular fandom opinions, now I don't really care who loves and hates the things I do as long as they respect those who have the opposite stance.)
Edited 2026-04-15 02:06 (UTC)