[ SECRET POST #7050 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7050 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Standard M/F smut blindly incorporates maledom kink without realizing its a kink, created and consumed by people with the maledom kink that don't think of it as kink and don't portray or regard it as such.

It's very funny to me

[philstar22]

This right here. It basically assumes sex, even non-kinky sex, always involves male dom. Just weird and annoying. I'll happily take full on M/F male dom of that, at least then the rules are there and it isn't pretending to be something it isn't.

[(Anonymous)]

+1. I do sometimes read M/F smut if it's characters I like and am interested in, and it's kind of hilarious how often it suddenly turns into this cookie cutter gender role bullshit. Even when it's totally wrong for the character! I have one M/F ship where the woman is slightly but noticeably taller than the man and you wouldn't believe the number of fics and artworks that have to "correct" that because how can he be growly dominant alpha man otherwise?

OP

[(Anonymous)]

And that is why I'm afraid of having sex with a man. 'Kinky' automatically means maledom kink, but vanilla sex is also maledom, maybe a milder version of it, but still. Not appealing.

I've seen a therapist person on Facebook (a woman, too) telling men to just introduce this kink into their marriage without discussing it. She did mention having a safeword, but specifically said not to tell the wife about it - just start telling her what to do. And listed a bunch of signs that a wife might want her husband to be sexually dominant. The first 'sign' was 'she's a woman.'

I've also seen men encouraging each other to just hit women during sex without asking, and shutting down any women who disagreed.

I actually saw someone on Tumblr saying that romance novels aren't actually romance if the man isn't dominant, though she did say the woman doesn't have to be submissive (maybe in personality outside of sex? Otherwise, I'm not sure how that would work).

I don't feel like it's a boundary I'd even be allowed to have. Like someone else just decided my sexuality for me and any dumb little noises coming out of my mouth about it need to be ignored.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

She did mention having a safeword, but specifically said not to tell the wife about it
That's rapey and violent as fuck. I'd report this person on FB