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⌈ Secret Post #1174 ⌋

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Big boobs can lead to:

Back problems, need for surgery, heightened probability of breast cancer, feeling shy, feeling sexually oppressed, the inability to find any clothes that fit you etc.

Small boobs will lead to:

not feeling sexy.

When I get out of my eventual surgery to correct my E chest, I'll be thinking about this girl's BAWWWWing and fucking laughing my stitches out.

Ah, so "feeling shy, feeling sexually oppressed, the inability to find any clothes that fit you etc" can't apply to women with small breasts? Oh, nevermind, it's the internet. Everyone knows more about living other people's lives than the original person ever could.

Laugh your stitches out, it's probably the only time you'll ever feel pain as a result of someone else's problem in your life. Might be a new feeling.

>SPOILER

YOU'RE BEING TROLLED

Pretty hard to tell when this is the only kind of response breast secrets ever get in these parts. Troll, legitimate asshole, they look pretty similar when no one ever responds with any trace of reason to boob secrets.

FWIW (not much) I don't think you're being trolled. I work in a plastic surgery office where both reductions and augmentations (as well as reconstructions from mastectomies, etc) are booked, and the emotional or psychic pain that small-chested women suffer is, honestly, hard to get cranked up over compared to the sometimes-literally crippling pain of women with exceptionally large breasts. A woman with small breasts can choose to augment with padded bras, silicone boosters, even prostheses if they choose, and some do. Granted it only works when they're dressed, and there is an element of oh no what is going to happen when these come off in an intimate situation, but it's still something. For the woman with severe kyphosis from large breasts, there is no every day quick fix, just pain, and often a sense that everyone in the world owns your boobs and can feel free to comment, leer, even touch.

I'm just saying, you might not like how it was said to you, but there is merit in what was said.

-- happy b/c cupper.

Thank you so much for this.

Small boobs :

not feeling like a 'woman', feel like everyone treats you like a child, feeling shy, feeling shy in sexual situations, the inability to find clothes that fit you.

I'm happy to have small boobs and I don't care about those stuffs, but for some girl it's hard.

And of course, feeling shy >>>>>>> life-threatening illness/chronic pain/disability

Yes, because most women with larger breasts have life threatening illnesses as a result. Everyone I know with a C cup or larger has just about died from big-boob-disease.

Some women with exceptionally large breasts have serious health complications. If you're one of them, I'm very sorry. But really, the secret was about having smaller than average breasts. Meaning, OP is comparing her breasts to average/slightly larger than average size. And yes, low self-esteem, shyness, not being able to find clothes that fit, and being desexualized in the media and often in real life are real problems. The OP is allowed to have problems that aren't your problems.

Except small breasted women get breast cancer too. (Hell, men get breast cancer, but you never hear about that.) Back pain? Buy a damn bra that fits. For God's sake. 28E repre-fucking-senting right here, and it's NOT THAT HARD. Yes, it's more expensive. Yeah, you have to order online.

But if you get a bra that fits properly? Guaran-damn-tee you a lot of women with back problems will stop having them.

(Also, breast cancer is not related to the size of the tatas. It's related to the genetic make-up of the cells that form the tatas. "Larger" breasts just mean more breast tissue that has the risk of a genetic problem occurring. I put larger in quotes because honestly? A 36A has the same amount of boobage as myself. It's just distributed differently. Yet most people would say I'm larger with the E cup.)

Personally, the only problems I've had with it was when I was in my teens, being constantly mistaken for being about five years younger. My problem wasn't so much "BAWWW, I want big boobs so I can be HAWT!!!" as it was being about 15 and being constantly mistaken for a ten year old. :/
But then again, I've always been thought to be much younger than I am....how annoying.

You'll like that when you're way older. (So I'm told) I'm 25 and people think I'm 19. It's not so terrible.

My mom is in her early 60's and looks 45. I cannot WAIT for that.

Oh yeaaah, I forgot to mention how SICK and TIRED I am of hearing that ALL THE TIME, and how much I wanna raeg the millions of times I've heard that line.
I guess I should've brought that up before someone here mentioned it....It's not the LEAST BIT comforting now.

Enjoy that pointless negativity for the rest of your life, then.

Good day, sir or madame.

Hah, sorry, just that I saw that response coming from a mile away. When hearing it too many times to count, it's kinda hard to take comfort in :P
And while being mistaken for so much younger isn't as much as a problem now as it used to be, I'm still a bit shaken from when I was about 17 and mistaken for a 12 year old.

Edited 2010-03-24 07:51 (UTC)

See it was not quite that awful for me, once I hit late teens, I stayed in the early teens, looks wise but the gap has gotten bigger. I still get called in for teenagers all the time, but I don't really mind it now.

Also, it's bad on the other side, believe me. I had this roommate who was 27, she looked like she was in her early 40s. I mean, I think she was one of those people who would always look older... but she never used moisturizer or anything so the problem progressed really rapidly. D: I'd much rather be on the younger side of the equation, looking 19 years old until I'm at least 30.

Man, you are one selfish fuck! No room for sympathy for anyone but yourself? AWESOME.

Okay, let's try a different example.

You have very small, thin, dainty feet. Everyone compliments you on your beautiful feet, tells you how lucky you are to have them, how much they want them. Except your feet are so thin and small it is agony to walk on them.

Do you see why people are getting pissed off now?

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