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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-03-23 04:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #1174 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1174 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

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Re: Not the anon you're replying to

(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Small boobs :

not feeling like a 'woman', feel like everyone treats you like a child, feeling shy, feeling shy in sexual situations, the inability to find clothes that fit you.

I'm happy to have small boobs and I don't care about those stuffs, but for some girl it's hard.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
And of course, feeling shy >>>>>>> life-threatening illness/chronic pain/disability

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, because most women with larger breasts have life threatening illnesses as a result. Everyone I know with a C cup or larger has just about died from big-boob-disease.

Some women with exceptionally large breasts have serious health complications. If you're one of them, I'm very sorry. But really, the secret was about having smaller than average breasts. Meaning, OP is comparing her breasts to average/slightly larger than average size. And yes, low self-esteem, shyness, not being able to find clothes that fit, and being desexualized in the media and often in real life are real problems. The OP is allowed to have problems that aren't your problems.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Except small breasted women get breast cancer too. (Hell, men get breast cancer, but you never hear about that.) Back pain? Buy a damn bra that fits. For God's sake. 28E repre-fucking-senting right here, and it's NOT THAT HARD. Yes, it's more expensive. Yeah, you have to order online.

But if you get a bra that fits properly? Guaran-damn-tee you a lot of women with back problems will stop having them.

(Also, breast cancer is not related to the size of the tatas. It's related to the genetic make-up of the cells that form the tatas. "Larger" breasts just mean more breast tissue that has the risk of a genetic problem occurring. I put larger in quotes because honestly? A 36A has the same amount of boobage as myself. It's just distributed differently. Yet most people would say I'm larger with the E cup.)

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] ayeayes.livejournal.com 2010-03-23 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally, the only problems I've had with it was when I was in my teens, being constantly mistaken for being about five years younger. My problem wasn't so much "BAWWW, I want big boobs so I can be HAWT!!!" as it was being about 15 and being constantly mistaken for a ten year old. :/
But then again, I've always been thought to be much younger than I am....how annoying.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] pippie-poppins.livejournal.com 2010-03-24 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
You'll like that when you're way older. (So I'm told) I'm 25 and people think I'm 19. It's not so terrible.

My mom is in her early 60's and looks 45. I cannot WAIT for that.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] ayeayes.livejournal.com 2010-03-24 07:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeaaah, I forgot to mention how SICK and TIRED I am of hearing that ALL THE TIME, and how much I wanna raeg the millions of times I've heard that line.
I guess I should've brought that up before someone here mentioned it....It's not the LEAST BIT comforting now.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] pippie-poppins.livejournal.com 2010-03-24 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
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Enjoy that pointless negativity for the rest of your life, then.


Good day, sir or madame.

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] ayeayes.livejournal.com 2010-03-24 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
Hah, sorry, just that I saw that response coming from a mile away. When hearing it too many times to count, it's kinda hard to take comfort in :P
And while being mistaken for so much younger isn't as much as a problem now as it used to be, I'm still a bit shaken from when I was about 17 and mistaken for a 12 year old.
Edited 2010-03-24 07:51 (UTC)

Re: Not the anon you're replying to

[identity profile] pippie-poppins.livejournal.com 2010-03-24 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
See it was not quite that awful for me, once I hit late teens, I stayed in the early teens, looks wise but the gap has gotten bigger. I still get called in for teenagers all the time, but I don't really mind it now.


Also, it's bad on the other side, believe me. I had this roommate who was 27, she looked like she was in her early 40s. I mean, I think she was one of those people who would always look older... but she never used moisturizer or anything so the problem progressed really rapidly. D: I'd much rather be on the younger side of the equation, looking 19 years old until I'm at least 30.