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fandomsecrets2010-05-02 05:14 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2010-05-02 05:14 pm
[ SECRET POST #1216 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1216 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Secrets Left to Post: 15 pages, 351 secrets from Secret Submission Post #174.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Perhaps if you carefully tell them the truth. There's probably someone, you trust or are closer to in the fandom maybe? You can gently ease them in by telling them you have something important to tell them, and that you ask them not to judge what you are about to tell them.
After said person asks you to go on and 'spill' and you feel comfortable with it, tell them.
Perhaps that someone could also be someone who has your back as you gradually tell others.
(If you are sure you want them to know, I get the impression you're not happy keeping this underwraps)
I don't really have much advise to offer either, but I hope things work out for you.
I don't know if it helps but you're probably not the only person this has happened to on some level.
Gender identity can be confusing after all sometimes. I've kind of thought for a while that orientation is more 'fluid' then we give it credit for sometimes, so perhaps gender identity is sometimes the same thing. Not QUITE as fluid as orientation, but perhaps on some level it can be fluid too.
What I mean is SOMETIMES it CAN change for a person in their life. The fact is however, NO-ONE can force someone to change in that manner at all, nor should they try to do so. To do so is of course morally repungent, severely damaging to a person and wrong as well as impossible to succeed in reality. Instead such change if it happens could not be forced. You can't force yourself to change OP, and the fact you MAY have changed in an area is really out of your control. It's not your fault that any of this happened. And you can't I repeat, forcibly change yourself. Hopefully by gradually easing yourself in and telling people, things will work out.
And if they judge you even if you bravely tell them the truth, well, I think you're better off without them.
That's just my thoughts anyway.
Whether you find yourself to be trans or not I hope things work out OP.