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fandomsecrets2010-05-02 05:14 pm
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[ SECRET POST #1216 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1216 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Secrets Left to Post: 15 pages, 351 secrets from Secret Submission Post #174.
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Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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(Anonymous) 2010-05-03 12:48 am (UTC)(link)Secondly, you don't have to medically transition to be trans. Some of us just say fuck all that shit, and will live life as a dude in a female body. There is pressure to medically transition in some portions of the trans community, but there shouldn't be.
And thirdly, it's okay to change your mind about this stuff. Some people start transitioning and feel more comfortable half way, and some decide that they're female on days they feel female and male on days they feel male. Your identity is as individual as you are, even if you fit under the broad umbrella of 'male' or 'female' most of the time. At least, this is what I believe.
Regarding your friends, you shouldn't ever have to disclose. I know it's a pain not feeling comfortable speaking on vent or whatever. If you do decide to disclose and are worried about it, sound the person out a bit first. The only person I've told online is pretty interested in queer activism etc, so I knew she'd probably be okay with it. To be honest, telling her was a relief because it meant I had someone to talk to about this stuff when I wanted to.
Sorry about the wall of text. Whatever you decide, good luck. You're not alone.