[ SECRET POST #1374 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1374 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[quadruplify.livejournal.com]

You had me up to that last line. Yay for casual ableism!

[(Anonymous)]

I think they're referring to the fact that some online feminists say that their social phobias or other disabilities prevent them from participating in rl activism. Because they think that's necessary to be a 'real' feminist, those women are just posers.

[(Anonymous)]

Put it this way:

If you have one leg and you try to run a marathon, that's something people will respect and admire you for.

If you have one leg and you constantly bitch about all the things you can't do with only one leg, that's something people will pity and feel sorry at you for, not respect.

If you are trying to overcome your social phobia (even if you fail), I am deeply impressed and proud. If you resign yourself to a life of never helping others in the real world over it, then yeah, I think that's a bit idiotic, and pity is all you're going to get from me.

[(Anonymous)]

YAY! I GET PITY!

[(Anonymous)]

Do you think you deserve anything more from a stranger on the internet?

[(Anonymous)]

Oooh, iceburn.

[(Anonymous)]

> you have one leg and people are constantly bitching at you for not running a marathon

that's more like it.

[quadruplify.livejournal.com]

Right, because social phobia can be overcome if you just try really, really hard. Good to know!

[(Anonymous)]

... It can be. Are you silly or have you never heard of people getting over it? It takes work.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, it takes work, but what type of work and how much varies wildly. There are rare occasions when just going out and getting over it (or whatever it is you're suggesting) helps, but in most cases it takes therapy and medication, and even then it might be years before they see any type of real improvement.

[(Anonymous)]

I was talking about therapy and medication, yes. But it can be overcome. It's not permanent.

[(Anonymous)]

Lol, stop pretending like your 'disability' is anything more than an excuse for being a lazy dick. :)

[(Anonymous)]

lmao ANOTHER iceburn, this thread fucking kicks ass.

[stunt-muppet.livejournal.com]

So disabled people are obligated to be good, heroic examples for the nondisabled? Mm-hmm.

[(Anonymous)]

Social anxiety isn't a fucking disability, get over your damn self.

Talk about a bullshit first-world problem.

"ALSO MY EYELASHES ARE THIN AND BRITTLE ;_____;"

[stunt-muppet.livejournal.com]

I haven't got social anxiety. :D

See, people can think you're full of shit without it just being because you insulted them! I think we all learned something today.

[(Anonymous)]

Um, I didn't say get over your social disability, I said get over yourself for claiming such a thing IS a disability and comparing it to one.

I see now that your problem is really MENTAL disability.

I'm not the anon you're replying to, either, simpleton.

[(Anonymous)]

The DSM IV would disagree with you. Between an anonymous moron on the internet and a reputable medical establishment, I know who I'd trust.

Sure, it's a first world problem. So are allergies, eating disorders, and age-related illnesses; I guess we shouldn't treat any of those either.

[(Anonymous)]

STFU, you're embarrassing yourself.

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck off. Your internet squabbles with "fandom feminists"* can just stay with them. If you've got an argument, let it stand on its own merits. I don't see why you need to resort to spouting hate and bullshit out of ignorance about people like me - someone who has been trying very hard to deal (and have all my life) with something that is very fucking real.

I sit in a therapists' office, as someone otherwise perfectly sound of body and mind, and my throat and mouth go dry, my whole body racks in uncontrollable tremors from the mere act of engaging in vocal communication with a stranger. It's something very real that focus and trying very hard on one's own can only go so far to mitigate. Sitting here and telling me I shouldn't need therapy because it's ~not a real problem~ rings fucking hollow.

As for "it's a ~first world problem~", sure. So is pretty much the whole thing about treating mental disability. That's such a ridiculous non-argument.

*I consider myself neither a part of fandom (I come here to F!S, that's it, and I've probably made a grand total of 4 replies) or of feminism (humanism, sure), but that isn't the point here.

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[oflittlebrain.livejournal.com]

fucking preach.

[(Anonymous)]

Hooray for completely incorrect use of humanist!

[(Anonymous)]

lol yes it is.

[(Anonymous)]

I get what you're saying, but not everyone with one leg is going to try to run a marathon, and that doesn't necessarily mean they're "self-pitying". There's plenty of space between running a marathon and doing nothing but whining all day.

[(Anonymous)]

what.