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⌈ Secret Post #148 ⌋

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Re: Re 6

[ew-younerd.livejournal.com]

The studies you are refering to (I have the link if you want) actually proves that men have more rigid sexuality while women have more flexible sexuality, and never proved anything about male bisexuality.

And heterosexuality and homosexuality, on an unwavering and unmoving scale, also exists and not just because society enforces them. There are homosexual animals that mate only exclusively with their gender, at the expense of not propegating their genes.

Re: Re 6

[poisonangel7.livejournal.com]

Saying that men have a more ridgid sexuality or that women have a more fluid sexuality is the same statement in the sense that a glass may be half empty or half full of course.

I also clearly stated that while there were studies much of my information was based on personal introspection and obersvation.

I believe I also explained that, while rare, I believed it was possible to land so close to one *end* or another of the spectrum that no other inclinations may be noticed. While you may be able to research the mating habits of humans and other animals, you can not as easily measure attraction. And not all attraction is immediately or necessarily sexual, but I think it is still a factor. I may be attracted to men and women and yet only have sex with men. You can say that makes me straight or you can say that makes me bisexual. I say that makes the issue much more complicated than people would like to believe.

But just as I believe that sexuality cannot be rigidly defined nor do I see my perseptions as rigid on this issue. They grow and redirect as new information becomes available. If anything, I find asexuality the most interesting, challenging concept to either integrate into my construct or not. I cannot say anything I have heard here causes me to waver on what I have said. But I appreciate your thoughts on this matter. Only with open dialog and freedom of thought can someone really approach finding a genuine answer to such questions if at all.

Re: Re 6

[ew-younerd.livejournal.com]

I mainly just pulled that up to show something that most scientists know while most psychologists don't know: Studies are not the be-all end all, especially when they are not consistent in conclusive results and do not hold enough control groups or wide demographics. Studies on bisexuality today using the mechanics of measuring genital arousal while the subjects to experiment view erotic images would indicate that there are almost no male bisexuals, period, while female bisexuals exist everywhere.

Of course, I've met real male bisexuals, so that isn't very true.

The fact of the matter is, it's foolish to make any rash generalizations on sexuality, speaking of rigid or fluid terms. This is because we are still discovering the neurochemistry and physiology of romantic love, and how it correlates with attraction and sex. They are controlled in different parts of the brain, and while they are entwined they can also exist exclusively of each other (attraction and romantic attraction). Until more scientific research is done on the subject, one can only speculate, but one should also not project their own views of sexuality on to an entire population.

Re: Re 6

[poisonangel7.livejournal.com]

I would agree with all of that assuming you are not implying I was speaking to the counter. But whether you reply or not, I leave the issue here rather than end up on a wanking site. ^_^ Have a good one.