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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-07 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #1556 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1556 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #222.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-08 05:15 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing with fandom, isn't so much that it lies, it's just that fandom tends to forget that there are multiple kinds of and expressions of love, and that best friends tend to be a different kind of love than lovers. Sure, two people can love each other deeply, but have no sexual attraction to one another. (Hell, I'm willing to bet that's what Fry and Laurie have) Fandom seems to think that because two people love each other deeply, with their whole heart, with no interest in it become a romantic relationship.

...Fandom seems to think that love=sex, when love and sex are two completely different things. (I blame the fact that much of America is the same way, saying that you should only have sex if you love somebody, and that sex is the ultimate declaration of love, and much of fandom is american).