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fandomsecrets2011-04-16 04:41 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2011-04-16 04:41 pm
[ SECRET POST #1565 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1565 ⌋
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 12 pages, 297 secrets from Secret Submission Post #224.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 3 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 6 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-16 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)I'm sorry Anon? Keep It Real I guess. This secret makes me sad.
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I won't bother saying my age because, if there's one thing F!S has taught me, it's that age does not matter.
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the trick to it, as far as i can tell, is that i kept saying and pretending "i don't care what anyone thinks!" and slowly it became true.
there are certain serious matters in life where you should take into account the judgment of others besides your own. but for the most part, when you find yourself worrying what other people will say, ask yourself, "who are 'they' exactly? is it some specific person who i respect who will look down on me forever if i tell them i really love this movie? is this really such a big deal?"
most of the time, it's not such a big deal. if you happen to be surrounded by people who get upset if you don't like/wear/do the same things as them, uh... get new friends if you can. but usually life is not like Mean Girls. and on the internet, you can always always find more people just like you.
if you're already considered weird-- well, nobody is entirely normal anyway. people have been telling me all my life i am "quirky" and "unusual". since whatever-it-is has persisted in my personality all this time, there is no point in worrying about it, and i advise you not to worry about it either.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-16 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)I don't want to stop being me, but I am really not ok with this.
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Nørretranders' Law of Symmetrical Relief
"If you find that most other people, upon closer inspection, seem to be
somewhat comical or ludicrous, it is highly probable that most other
people find that you are in fact comical or ludicrous. So you don't
have to hide it, they already know."
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The only problem comes in when people decide that being considered comical or ludicrous is too sad a fate to be borne, so they flatten their personalities out T.T The world needs more people who don't care if others think they're strange
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-16 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)So I'm not a 100% secure in myself but I'm finally secure enough to not let others' opinions stop me from doing as I please and I hope you'll get there someday. :)
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-16 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)no subject