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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-23 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #1572 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1572 ⌋


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[identity profile] sony-boy.livejournal.com 2011-04-26 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
Take the time to research sites that deal with gender identiy and thinks things through. Did you feel something like this (vague or strongly) before fandom had you thinking about it? Have you talked to others (internet and RL)? What applies to you and what doesn't? Are you happy or not? Does this change anything for you?

Relax. So maybe you're just realising or are starting to really consider issues and things about yourself. It's confusing and the stress you get when you're uncertain is horrible, I know.

Personaly I am bisexual due to not caring on the gender of who I'm dating/crushing on. Thanks to fandom, I've also been able to recently name an issue that caused me a lot of head/heartache and major stress while I researched and really looked into my how this was a part of my RL. I'm asexual. And before coming across this in fandom I didn't know what to call it. All I knew was that I wanted a relationship with someone but the thought of having sex with anyone literaly has had me praying to the porcelain god a few times, and I didn't know why.

So fandom can be enlightening but just take time to work things through. Work your way throught the stress, slowly if need be. Don't rush. This is your life, find what works for you.