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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-04 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1583 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1583 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 83 secrets from Secret Submission Post #226.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 0 - take it to comments ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
Goddamn people, are you or are you not rational adults? I would understand this craziness if you were all fourteen years old, but from what I've gathered, most of the people involved in this are at least in their mid-twenties. This passive aggressive bullshit you all engage in is ridiculous. If you're pissed at Lori and truly think you're in the right, at least have the balls to tell her you think she's a cunt outside of the guise of anonymity. Because otherwise you're just being a coward with a stick up your ass and a penchant for dragging things into public.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
If we're right and we tell her what we think of her outside of anonymity, we get our asses banned. No thanks, I'll stay anon.

Considering her history of this sort of behavior and continued lack of reason in her replies tonight, making shit public is exactly what she needs. You can't be a bitch forever without people eventually figuring it out and getting tired of it.

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
People that don't like the way I do things have a very easy solution to their woes. Don't interact with me. This is the internet. It's vast. Go play elsewhere. Seems simple enough.

You're tired of it, yet you still care about getting banned. Speaking of lack of reason...

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
[comment left blank so you can have the last word because lord knows if you don't get it you'll just keep wanking until you do]

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, but how mean is it to ruin a fandom for a group of unrelated people?

You shouldn't force your own personal issues onto everyone else trying to enjoy ... whatever fandom this actually is, idk man. So, rather than being about choosing to talk to you or not, it turns into having to avoid a possibly well-loved show because a mod can't keep her cool.

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 06:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I only ruin it if they let me. There are plenty of ways to enjoy fandom without letting me affect them. I'm one person. The fandom is large. The internet is vast.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-07 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
Gosh, doesn't that remind me of the kids back at high school, "I only beat you up and steal your stuff because you let me." Nice.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
So you want to "make shit public" without making yourself public. That makes you a coward. If you really want everything to "be exposed", shouldn't you have the courage to be transparent?

Lori's been completely rational in all of her responses tonight. She has no qualms about admitting she's a bitch/cunt/doesn't like it when people talk behind her back and not to her face. Nobody has to "figure out" she's a bitch. She is one in open. You can stay or you can go, she really doesn't give a shit.

But all of you? You're all just hiding, so you can continue to freely bitch about the comm without even trying to open any sort of constructive dialogue, while still getting access to all the content. Because you have this irrational fear of getting banned. Where does this get us? Nowhere.

Seriously, we won't ban you if you have a specific concern about the comm. If you make accusations about the mod team without going to them first, however, then it's fair ground for banning. Come to us, talk to us! The reason this member-and the ones before- got banned, were because they DIDN'T talk to us before bitching.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
It's not an irrational fear if it actually happens. And apparently it does.

I've seen people comment here with attempts at constructive criticism. You, or her, jump on it, that's when the irrationality starts. I don't get how you can justify her responses as rational - they're not. They've shut down every opportunity for dialogue that's been made.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-07 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
So you want to "make shit public" without making yourself public. That makes you a coward. If you really want everything to "be exposed", shouldn't you have the courage to be transparent?

Surely the whole point of fandom secrets is that it's someone's SECRET???? WTF?

(Anonymous) 2011-05-07 08:46 am (UTC)(link)
except the part where a member was banned in this post in fandom secrets because they politely disagreed with her to her damn face.
what about that part?

oh, that was a ban because it was here, i guess, never mind that that was never a stipulation. why do i have a feeling that new stipulations will keep on poppin up

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
no1 curr bout you

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:01 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, honey, I'm also a mod at all of the aforementioned comms. I could ban your ass anytime I wanted to. But I don't do that, because I like to *surprise!* engage in positive discussion. And I don't hide behind an anonymous curtain.

[identity profile] kittikattie.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
I could ban your ass anytime I wanted to.

Classy. These are the kinds of mods they keep? Glad I stepped.

I'm the mod of AG over 18, and I know better than to care what other people say about me and flex e-balls about how I can "ban" them any time I want. Because what they have to say outside of my community about me doesn't fucking matter in the community. In fact, I'm sure that there's at least one or two people there who would be happy to watch me crash and burn or kick me down a flight of stairs, and I don't give a fuck what they say outside the comm. I only ban or boot for broken rules, not for personal rants against mods.

You don't deserve a mod ship if you think it's okay to ban people for being bitchy in their own journals and post locked shit because "they have a right to know" because THEY DON'T.

So if you think that it's using people to be in their comms and not like them, please get to effing stepping because I doubt you will like me from now on. I certainly won't like you after this ass-showing.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
Neth, knowing that you're a veteran of several internet comms and crazy AG wank, I would think that you could tell the difference between when I'm being facetious and when I'm being serious. All my other responses in this thread have involved some level of dialogue. Did you really think I was going to respond to a post that says, "no1curr about you" with the same level of detail/seriousness? Obviously not.
Edited 2011-05-05 07:19 (UTC)

[identity profile] kittikattie.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:27 am (UTC)(link)
The fact that you flexed mod power maliciously means I no longer respect you.

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[identity profile] xuchilvith.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd like to direct you to the banning that happened above, for telling her she's a cunt outside the guise of anonymity. :)

[identity profile] kittikattie.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Stop bringing logic into this!

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
That's because [livejournal.com profile] allicapri told her she was a cunt in fandomsecrets, of all places. Trust me, if she'd said it to Lori to her face in a private message or even on her personal journal- that is to say, directly to her, but not in a place created specifically for wank like this one- then I guarantee things would have turned out differently.

/kanyeshrug

[identity profile] xuchilvith.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Excuses, excuses, excuses, excuses.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, you're free to believe what you wanna believe, but the only people who have ever been banned from Lori's comms other than people who do things like stealing other members' photos are ones who post in fandom_wank/fandomsecrets/act two-faced.

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[identity profile] allicapri.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
1. I called nobody that. I don't use that word. I disagreed with her policy on the relevance of shit that happens outside the community.

2. f_s isn't for wank, it's for secrets (some of which are wanky).

3. I don't believe you. Maybe you believe it, but I don't. I'd be out either way, but at least now people know about it.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
1. Eh, semantics.

2. Secrets, wank, whatever, it still stirs up drama and shit. I think all comms like that are unnecessary and ridiculous, and I only come to them when someone's attacking one of my friends.

3. Lol I mean, you're free to believe whatever you want to believe. I'm just stating our side. /kanyeshrug

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[identity profile] gershwhen.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, I've always assumed that mod WAS fourteen years old, the way her posts sound.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)
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