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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-04 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1583 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1583 ⌋


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[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
That's totally your prerogative.

Re: the banning thing- see that's the thing, though. I don't see the point of complaining about fandom shit in the first place, especially when I might have mutual friends with the mod of any community I'm in. Why say anything at all, if you know it could have repercussions/the person you're writing about could see it? What we do isn't at all different from what happens in the real world. Think of it like a company. Don't write something negative that someone else might find out about and then get mad when there are consequences for what you've written.

The internet is not a private place. I don't bitch about anything internet related in my personal journal for this very reason, and you're wise in not doing so yourself.


(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
Why say anything at all, if you know it could have repercussions/the person you're writing about could see it?

Because if a comm is run by a sensible mod (i.e. not you lot), it doesn't matter what you say outside the comm. You could call the mods a team of horsefaced cockbibs in your own journal, even outside a friends lock, and they wouldn't care as long as you don't cause trouble in the comm. They might be hurt or maybe even call them out on it outside the comm, but it would have nothing to do with the op's standing in the comm.

You don't seem to realize that people have the right to say whatever they want to, especially when they think they're talking among friends, and only a total asshole mod would use that against them in the context of a comm.

The internet is not the same thing as the real world. Modding a comm =/= leading a company. Jesus, if you can't see how those two things are different from each other, it's not wonder you're unable to make a difference between private and public.

[identity profile] la-localfreak.livejournal.com 2011-05-07 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry to jump in here, but maybe I've mis-understood. This post where the complaints were was flocked right? So if I, in RL, talk to my friends about how say, theoretically, I hated a boss of mine he/she is perfectly within their rights to fire me?

Actually no. Even if a friend of mine did go and say to my boss 'you know localfreak hates you', regardless of their faults, they would not fire me. Not only would it be an unfair dismissal, so they COULDN'T, but they're adult enough to know that if people rant about their job they still don't want to lose it, and that if people say in private to someone they hate you the best response is to rise above it and ignore it.

I know fandom isn't the RL but you suggested to think of it like a company. From what I understand the person who posted wasn't whining about the 'Company' (read the comm) but the Moderator (read the boss)and their behaviour within the comm and that's different.