[ SECRET POST #1615 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1615 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 185 secrets from Secret Submission Post #231.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
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Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

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[no-one-specific.livejournal.com]

Seek help on the 'avoid emotions', or at least try to face up to your emotions. Applying logic/etc isn't wrong, or bad, though--there are a lot of people who are like that, and it really isn't too much of a problem, as long as you don't 'run away from' emotion, and as long as you keep in mind that other people aren't the same way. And the 'I don't believe it unless you prove it to me' isn't really wrong or annoying, some people are like that.

[flipthefrog.livejournal.com]

You should probably talk to your psychologist about this. They need to know that they aren't helping you as much as they could be, and they also need to know what is helping. I think that anything that keeps you alive and stable is a good thing for the time being, though, and your psych will probably agree.

[ac-123.livejournal.com]

Not accepting/bottling emotions aren't healthy, so good job trying to take steps towards fixing that. :)

Also, the appeal/idea of TV is creating characters that you have an emotional attachment to so that you keep coming back to watch the show. You watch them grow and develop through their highs and lows (like your friends). Versus the relationship with your therapist, who is a stranger you talk to (or at) to get through your problems.

Reason is logical. Keep going with reason.

[mad-mood-ring.livejournal.com]

This secret reminds me so much of a friend of mine and myself in my younger years. It's normal to have a connection to something fictitious because we can relate to them. Like a real person, it's not about what's necessarily in front of us, it's how we resolve our issues.

My therapist once told me that we grow and change as individuals. We learn how to adapt to new situations when we feel ready to face them. There really isn't a wrong way of coping or facing problems. It's how we face them and some are just faster at learning how than others. It took me over fifteen years to figure it out.

[strangetwn-god.livejournal.com]

Really? One of the reasons I couldn't get past the first season of Bones was the way they treated everything that's great about the protagonist as a character flaw that makes her unable to relate to other people.

[mutantjules.livejournal.com]

you might want to talk to your psychologist or someone about being afraid to deal with your emotions

but there's nothing wrong with being clinically logical!

[kallanda-lee.livejournal.com]

Hey, going to give a bit of different advice here.

-Not all medical professionals are a good match. Just because they have a degree, does not mean they can help you. I would urge you to finds a therapist who is more suited to your needs
-there's nothing wrong with identifying or getting strength from a fictional character.
-Having trust in other people is not illogical per se, if the people in question are proven to be trustworthy. Perhaps you can find trust in people even though you are taking the rational approach.
-There's a difference between suppressing emotions, and just not feeling them when most people do. Figure out which it is for you...but honestly, there's nothing wrong with a rational approach to life, just as long as it doesn't make your daily life unmanageable.