[ SECRET POST #1625 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1625 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Sorry it's late. Half of tinypic being down = I have to go through manually and replace the ones that aren't working. Hopefully it'll be back by tomorrow

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly? Not everybody knows how to deal properly with such situations. It's called being clueless. It does not make them an asshole. That would be if they used the wrong pronouns despite better knowledge.

Yes, being clueless does not excuse bad behaviour, and it is hurtful (and sometimes even more hurtful than intentional acts, because cluelessness can often be among people one actually knows and trusts), but there is a difference between doing it because they are used to calling him "she" or with an intent to hurt them.

Add to that that the OP knew him for a couple as years as a woman, and you can mostly blame this on a mix of habit and retrospective reference.