First off, you're making huge assumptions about your friend's relationship, and basically looking down your nose at her because you assume she can't tell the difference between fiction and reality. She probably likes the guy for a whole variety of reasons, and just finds the fact that it's May-December a cute/hot bonus. Besides, you're also assuming that the relationship is going to end horribly based simply on age difference (if there're other bad signs, then that makes sense); fyi, I was in a May December relationship that began when I was two years underage, and it was a long-distance one to boot: a few years later, we're married and still as happy as ever. Just because of the age difference, it doesn't automatically make the relationship an unhealthy one.
Secondly, resenting someone because their genuine IRL trauma will put you off one of your kinks? That's not just selfish, that's fucked up. Just take this girl off your FList, because you clearly don't care about her that much if your taste in pairings is really more important than her psychological wellbeing.
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First off, you're making huge assumptions about your friend's relationship, and basically looking down your nose at her because you assume she can't tell the difference between fiction and reality. She probably likes the guy for a whole variety of reasons, and just finds the fact that it's May-December a cute/hot bonus. Besides, you're also assuming that the relationship is going to end horribly based simply on age difference (if there're other bad signs, then that makes sense); fyi, I was in a May December relationship that began when I was two years underage, and it was a long-distance one to boot: a few years later, we're married and still as happy as ever. Just because of the age difference, it doesn't automatically make the relationship an unhealthy one.
Secondly, resenting someone because their genuine IRL trauma will put you off one of your kinks? That's not just selfish, that's fucked up. Just take this girl off your FList, because you clearly don't care about her that much if your taste in pairings is really more important than her psychological wellbeing.