[ SECRET POST #1630 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1630 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 187 secrets from Secret Submission Post #233.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - take it to comments/wank elsewhere ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, yes you are.

First off, you're making huge assumptions about your friend's relationship, and basically looking down your nose at her because you assume she can't tell the difference between fiction and reality. She probably likes the guy for a whole variety of reasons, and just finds the fact that it's May-December a cute/hot bonus. Besides, you're also assuming that the relationship is going to end horribly based simply on age difference (if there're other bad signs, then that makes sense); fyi, I was in a May December relationship that began when I was two years underage, and it was a long-distance one to boot: a few years later, we're married and still as happy as ever. Just because of the age difference, it doesn't automatically make the relationship an unhealthy one.

Secondly, resenting someone because their genuine IRL trauma will put you off one of your kinks? That's not just selfish, that's fucked up. Just take this girl off your FList, because you clearly don't care about her that much if your taste in pairings is really more important than her psychological wellbeing.

[(Anonymous)]

You're making assumptions about how much I do know about the relationship and her. No mistake I'm a jerk in ways about this situation but thre is more that would come too close to revealing her if I went into detail. There are bad signs. She is barely 18 and doing things that are legal but I worry too much too soon for her, based on knowing her a while, but are probably mundane to him.

fuck me for owning up to the kind of stupid ~not the main point~ selfish feeling most people have sometimes as an aside.

[(Anonymous)]

You sound more jealous than selfish, to be honest. I mean, you stated that you loved May/December relationships. If I was your friend and knew that, I would assume that you wouldn't mind being in one. I would also assume that you would be one of the few people who wouldn't judge the relationship and get it. I would expect you to be supportive. Which may be why she talks to you about it so much. And for you to say you think he's using her (whether he is or not) would ring in her ears that you're maybe jealous. I don't know what your situation is (if you're in a relationship or not), I'm only going off what you've said. I'm probably wrong, but it's not a bad idea to look at things from your friend's perspective.