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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-20 07:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1630 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1630 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-06-21 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
So your concerns are legitimate; I know from experience. There's usually such a power imbalance between the two--especially if one is "jailbait," not like a 25 year old dating a 50 year old because at that point ostensibly everyone is an adult making their own choices. It's usually not an awesome idea. (Note I am not saying always.)

But really all you can do as a friend is voice your concerns (politely! tactfully! only if it is actually any of your business!) and then move on, and not think about her when you read fic or whatever about your favorite parings. It's not her and her older bf/gf that you love; it's those characters. And unless you're into it, you're not reading about those characters in a one-sided exploitative relationship.

I bet you in six months you either won't care and/or she'll be broken up. If you're jealous, find your own. :) It's about 1/100 hard as you would think.

OP

(Anonymous) 2011-06-21 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. It ~is~ that she is so Barely Legal and he is so ~not~ plus the way she talks about it. She's in over her head and can't see it.

I will try to separate. I did like some exploitative undertones to my pairings and now it feels strange is all. Close and real.