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F!S Anon Meme (the Fifth)

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(LJ's still lagging here and there, good luck.)

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I'm kind of the same - I'm attracted to many many male characters, but rarely feel anything more than a passing interest in RL guys. The problem is that I find most guys I know douchey and extremely disappointing, and the guys I know who aren't like I don't find physically attractive. I wouldn't say I'm especially attracted to women in RL instead, but I certainly have much more satisfying friendships with them.

I think it's mostly to do with the amount of male characters who are extremely idealised: funny, intelligent, good-looking, respectful of their female friends, brave, compassionate etc, and then you get to real life and that's rather hard to find. I don't think that's a bad thing, though, because it's good to be picky. It sure does make things hard, though.