[ SECRET POST #1680 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1680 ⌋


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I've been there. On both sides. The one who was pining and the one was pined for.

Speaking from someone who was longing after someone, I know how rough it can be. Unfortunately you can't make someone love you. It's a really hard pill to swallow. All that you can do is be the best person you can be and hope they'll one day see that. Except I would strongly suggest to stop putting them on a pedestal. It's difficult, but it could lead to a lot of trouble and heartache. From what you've said, she sounds like a nice person (even though your opinion is biased), but one day in a moment of weaknesses she could take advantage of your admiration. There's no going back from that. There's also the chance an opportunity could pass you by. Someone could have eyes for you and you wouldn't even notice because you're too busy looking at someone who doesn't want to be with you. In the end, it's their loss and YOU (not her) deserve someone who will love you back the way you would love them.

[(Anonymous)]

I know I'm in love with her but its hard not to put her on a pedastel. Everyone has flaws & I see hers & I know where we're not comptable. There are definitely things that are off putting ot me, or would be difficult to overcome (& I'm sure are part of why she's not attracted to me), but even so its like nothing is a huge deal breaker. I'd move there or wherever for her, [or at least try] or whatever incompatable thing. I guess its like... we havent even dated, so I don't know how incompatable we are. Maybe if we dated I'd realize we have no chemistry & thisll never work & it'd help me get over her, but since we never got there, part of me still thinks it could work. I try to focus on the fact that she won't give me a chance to prove myself, but I also understand why, so it doesn't work. I try to focus on our differences, & how this or whatever little thing she does annoys me or bugs me or whatever, & sometimes that works short term. Sometimes I go ''yeah, that'd bug me too much to date her'' & then she goes & does something & I forget about that & decide I could work through it. & I think I could work through almost anything for her. I don't expect love to be a picnic or easy, so focusing on our flaws & differences doesnt really help. Sometimes it does, short term, but at the end of the day, I'm just reminded of how perfect [to me] she is, even when she's doing things that otherwise annoy me.

I really am not blind to other potential people out there. She & I live far away & I'm trying really hard to get over her, so I'm actively going out & dateing & meet people & stuff. I can't help but measure them up to her, tho, but I do still get excited when I meet or flirt with someone, so I do think there's a chance that meeting someone else [local] could help me get over her. It just hasn't happened yet, & part of me doesn't think it'd be fair to me or a potential other partner cause my heart is so set on her right now.

As for it being her loss & not mine, I do try to tell myself that, too, but it's hard. She's far from perfect & has a lot of flaws too, but ... I know it sounds bad, but she deserves someone better than me. I deserve someone pretty amazing too, but she deserves someone better than me & I know that and accept it, even tho it hurts a lot to admit. But is also part of the reason why I love her so much... because she makes me want to be the person she deserves too, cause even if it means I don't get her, maybe it means I could feel worthy of someone else like her, someday...